Oak Island
Harold Donald Stanzlaus, 64 of SE 18th Street, Oak Island, died Thursday, February 4, 2010 at his home. Harold was born March 14, 1945 in Newark, NJ, the son of Harold R. and Stella Stanzlaus.
Harold was a loving husband and companion of his wife Lynn for almost 43 years. They met at the age of 16 at Bayley Ellard High School, Madison, NJ and married at 22 years old. He graduated form Rutgers University in 1967. He was employed by Dunn & Bradstreet as a financial analyst and salesman in New York City and New Jersey from 1967 to 1989. Harold and Lynn moved to Oak Island after living for 29 years in Lake Tranquility, Green Township, NJ where they left many friends and had very many happy memories. Harold enjoyed fishing, biking, playing softball and watching the stock market but, mostly playing golf with his many buddies at the Oak Island Golf and Club. He leaves behind many golfer friends, particularly the Linksters and Walkers. Harold would want you all to “Have a great day”.
Harold was preceded in death by his mother and father, a niece Suzanne Soranno, and a nephew Donald Soranno of New Jersey.
Harold leaves behind his partner and soul mate Lynn Stanzlaus, his best friend and son Michael Stanzlaus and wife Angie of Oak Island, granddaughters, Brandi Fugate and husband Ed of NJ, Heather Dunaway of Kentucky, and Nikki Gault of Oak Island, a grandson Robert Dunaway of NJ, and two great-grandchildren Danyon Fugate and Haydon Fugate. Also surviving are his much loved nephew Tom Soranno and wife Susan of Chapel Hill, NC, his niece Sandra Domeratius and husband Eric of NJ, a sister Joan Soranno and husband Vito of NJ, a brother-in-law Bill Johnston and wife Deborah of Raleigh, NC, a sister-in-law Randy Johnston of Raleigh, NC, a niece Jennapher and husband Brad Wall of Apex, NC and many other nieces and nephews.
A Celebration of Life Memorial Service will be held at 2:00 pm on Saturday, February 13, 2010 at Oak Island Presbyterian Church with Reverend Walter Taylor officiating.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the following brain tumor centers and care givers; The Preston Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center at Duke University Medical Center, DUMC, Box 3624, Durham, NC 27710. Community Home Care & Hospice, 117 Village Rd, Suite R, Leland, NC 28451, or to the Zimmer Cancer Center, c/o NHRMC Foundation, 2259 South 17th Street, Wilmington, NC 28401.
Our special thanks go out to Dr. James Vredenburgh and nurse Martha Workman at Duke Medical Center and, Nicole and Traneshia from the hospice center, Dr Ungaro and the staff at Zimmer, Dr. Peter Almiral and his staff from Oak Island for the wonderful guidance and compassionate care they gave Harold and our family during this time.

19 Comments
February 6th, 2010 at 10:47 am
Indeed many happy Lake Tranquility memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with Lynn, Mike and the entire Stanzlaus family. Sincerely, Jennifer, David, Jacob and Victoria.
February 6th, 2010 at 11:53 am
Lynne and family, Please accept our deepest sympathy on the passing of Harold. While long ago; there are many pleasant memories of our times together in Mendham.
Fondly,
Peg and George Bohnert
Scottsdale, AZ
February 7th, 2010 at 10:53 am
Lyn,
How sad I am to read of Harold’s death. May you find peace and comfort with friends and family.
Warmest regards,
Marianne (BEHS ’63)
February 7th, 2010 at 11:14 am
Lyn and Family -
Bob and I are sorry to hear of your loss. Wish we were able to extend our condolences in person. We will always cherish the memories of our past times together – Love, Genie and Bob
February 7th, 2010 at 11:18 am
Lynn, I am so sorry to read about the passing away of Harold.
You and I connected awhile ago on Classmates and I just wanted to let
you know I will be thinking of you during this sad time. Sincerely, Maureen
February 7th, 2010 at 3:38 pm
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Stewart and Beth Holley
February 7th, 2010 at 3:44 pm
Lyn and her family,
My heart and prayers go out to you at your time of lost. Hope God gives you peace and love in your time of need.
February 8th, 2010 at 5:46 am
Lyn, I was so sad to hear about Harold’s passing. Just wanted you to know I’m thinking about you during this difficult time.
Mary Lynn
February 8th, 2010 at 5:53 am
Lynn and family,
Our deepest sympathy and loving thoughts and prayers. Harold will be missed by so many people who were touched by his exuberant spirit and personality. It will be lonely on the street without Harold’s booming laugh, especially when he greeted us on our arrivals. We are unable to be there for the service, but we will indeed celebrate Harold’s life when we next arrive on the island.
February 8th, 2010 at 3:26 pm
Lynn, I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband Harold. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayer.
February 9th, 2010 at 7:14 am
Lynne,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Michelle notified me this morning. I really miss all of my IIMC friends and especially my adopted family of New Jersy Clerks. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
February 9th, 2010 at 8:09 am
Lynne,
Please accept our condolences on Harolds passing. You and Mike are in our prayers through this tough time. I’ll always remember Harolds great laugh, his joking around and his support for you. He was truly your soul mate.
Love you,
Jim Luckey
February 9th, 2010 at 9:58 am
Lynn & Family,
Please accept our sincere sympathies on your loss of Harold.
Larry & Rae Pace
February 9th, 2010 at 1:44 pm
Lyn and Mike,
There is not much that can be said to ease the pain for you but may the many loving thoughts and prayers bring you comfort.
Peace and comfort to you
Anita Gallo
February 10th, 2010 at 12:51 pm
Lynn, Mike, & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will always remember Harold’s infectious laugh and love of a good joke.
Sincerely,
Craig & Heather Calhoun
February 10th, 2010 at 1:09 pm
Lynn,
Harold will be missed by many. I will always remember him as someone who could do anything and who was always willing to help out a neighbor or friend. He was a very special person. My thoughts and prayers are with you and with your family.
With deepest sympathy,
Sherrill
February 11th, 2010 at 6:32 am
So so sorry for your loss Lynn. I didn’t realize you had met at the age of 16 which is just amazing. Harold always had a smile and a chat for us, no matter what. Take care, if you need anything call us.
With warmest love,
Lona & Brian Kolb
February 12th, 2010 at 7:15 am
Dear Lynn, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We were looking forward to getting together again. Harold taught Aaron how to laugh at the frustrations of golf! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your son. Call us if there’s anything we can do.
Love,
Aaron and Betsy Parker
February 12th, 2010 at 8:35 pm
Lynn,
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Peace and love,
Katrina